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I'm confused. Before I met my ex-boyfriend, I has a huge "thing" for this guy who works the same place I do. He is a truck driver, and is only ever at work 1 day a week. He started flirting with me first, and I started to back, after.

Then I met my ex, and he started seeing someone. This was about 2 years ago. Things calmed down. I always found him attractive throughout my relationship, but neither of us ever acted on it. We were both completely into our new relationships. He and her broke up about 2 months ago. My ex and I broke up about 1 month ago, it was his decision, and I was devestaed. I truly thought I would marry him. I love him to pieces. We lived together. :(

So since the guy at work and I were both single, we have started to see each other. We get along great. He treats me wonderfully, takes me out to lunch everyday that he is home, calls me everynight he is away. I've spent alot of him at his house with him. He's great. I know he would do anything for me. We've talked so deep about things, and he's the type that is ready to settle down with someone (that could be becaue he is about 10 years older than I am). He is really starting to get attached.

About a week ago my ex boyfriend told me that he wants to try again. He asked if anything has happened since we've been apart, and I've mentioned that I've gone out a few times with this guy from work. He swears he hasn't done anything. He is totally preparred to do anything to be together again, he is miserable without me. I've missed him, his family and our friends alot.

I really love my ex boyfriend, but he said some hurtful things when he ended the relationship. I'm having so much fun with the guy from work, that I'm not sure if I want to go back. I'm torn between the 2. Please help! :confused:
[QUOTE=mdoane17]

So since the guy at work and I were both single, we have started to see each other. We get along great. He treats me wonderfully, takes me out to lunch everyday that he is home, calls me everynight he is away. I've spent alot of him at his house with him. He's great. I know he would do anything for me. We've talked so deep about things, and he's the type that is ready to settle down with someone (that could be becaue he is about 10 years older than I am). He is really starting to get attached. [/QUOTE]



You talk very good about this new guy. If it was me I would give him a go. The reason why is that you ex. had the chance and now has lost that chance by braking up with you. He is single again but you started with someone new.

You can't keep playing these games where you date and he brakes it off. You need to test the ground with this new guy and see what happens. If it doesn work and your ex is single in the end then try then.


[QUOTE=mdoane17]
About a week ago my ex boyfriend told me that he wants to try again. He asked if anything has happened since we've been apart, and I've mentioned that I've gone out a few times with this guy from work. He swears he hasn't done anything. He is totally preparred to do anything to be together again, he is miserable without me. I've missed him, his family and our friends alot. [/QUOTE]

You now have to look at it this way. He had his chance and lost it. It is your choice but I told you my opinion. Its not fair to either one if you have feelings for the other. Maybe you need to give it sometime and space to see what you really want and where your mind will go.





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