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Hello. This is my first time ever posting. Here is my problem.

My boyfriend of 3 years and I split up about a 3 weeks ago. He ended it because he got scared of commitment, then realized he was being an idiot. He wants to get back together. We have been talking the whole time and I am not sure if I want to go back with him or not. We have spent some time together here and there, but I am very open about telling him that I am not sure if I want to go back with him. I really do care for him with all my heart but he really hurt me, and I'm expecting him to do it again in the future.

Now here is the problem. There is a guy in the communtiy that my friends have been trying to set me up with. I have told them that I'm not ready to be with someone yet. I knew that he liked me. Anyways we were at a get-together this weekend, and we ended up having WAY, WAY too much to drink. Well to make a long story short, I woke up the next morning at his house, and rolled over, and there he was. I somewhat remeber that we messed around, but we had not had sex, but came close to it.

Now I feel terrible. I'm not with my b/f, and I would consider myself single, even before this happened, but I feel so guilty.

I know that this guy really wants to date me, and he really fits into my group of friends. I know he's a good guy and isn't the type to ever run-around or anything. We have known each other for at least 10 years. My friends really don't think much about my ex, because he broke up with me, put me through pain, and then wants to get back together. So they are all encouraging me to start seeing this guy.

I don't know what to do. I still have feelings for my ex and before this happened was really thinking about going back with him. Now i'm unsure. My feelings for him haven't changed, but I just feel so badly, even though I wasn't cheating.

Has anyone else been in a situation like this? If so, how did you handle it?


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