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[QUOTE=Oceangal01]
Some people go through stuff like this and end up marrying the person whom they broke up with. Others quit contact completely. I am continuing on with life... I already have. That's not really the issue. I'm simply interested in hearing the reactions/opinions/similar experiences of other people... those being you! Sharing of experiences and ideas is what makes others stronger and open-minded. So again, thanks everyone! Your sharings mean a lot to me! :)[/QUOTE]

I married a farm boy, but that is besides the point.

[I]Some people go through stuff like this and end up marrying the person whom they broke up with. Others quit contact completely. [/I]

I have had both. After three years, my b/f broke up with me out of the blue. I wanted to stay friends, but he wouldn't have anything to do with me. He cut off contact. I was upset, but eventually moved on with my life. I had fun with friends had some "me" time. I was a junior in college at the time. Well, one day he calls me and wants to get back together. (The line of communication had been opened a few weeks before.) I was in shock. I made him wait it out a few weeks, then gave him another chance. He proposed three weeks later. We got married in June 2003 (after I graduated from college) and are expecting our first child towards the end of next month.

He is going through a selfish phase. Let him go through it. More than likely he is weighing his options and keeping you on the backburner in case things don't work out. If it was meant to be, he will realize he was an idiot and come back. If not, you can't waste your time waiting. Move one and don't hesitate on relationships or fun because of the fear of scaring him away for good. You might end up scaring the real "Mr. Right" away.

Also, comprimise and sacrifice is important in a relationship. If you are together when you graduate, you shouldn't decide to stay around just because that is where he is. I moved my hubby to the city.

You are no longer in a romantic relationship. Until you are, don't organize one.





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