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Yes you're right rd, I have always wanted him back. We've been together for a long time, and it's not easy to just walk away, especially if you don't know what happened. I have to admit, most of the actual calling was done by me. He just sends messages, which I hate. I try to do the right thing, but he is soooo frustrating. But there is not a chance that I am just going to get on with things like nothing happened... if he wants to be with me, then I at least deserve an apology for all he's put me through, and for him to take responsibility for his actions and admit he was wrong. Rd, as much as I don't want to say it, I don't have much hope left anymore. I've put everything on the line time and time again, and he's thrown it back in my face every time. How can we begin to patch anything up when he just won't say ANYTHING at all? And when I asked why he can't even answer me, he just says "I don't know". Don't get me wrong, I can read the signs. I'm not stupid. But it's just so hard to accept and let go. Especially when some of the things he says gives me hope. I do love him alot, always have, but he's killing that love slowly but surely. I am just tired of feeling like this. I'm tired of being sad, confused, frustrated. I'm sick of it all. All the advice you've given me is very good rd, and I have tried time and time again, but he doesn't seem to care... He knows that our 6 yr relationship is on the line, and is in no hurry to save it. But I am going to try your advice again and stop contact (counter at day 1 AGAIN... this is ridiculous). That way, if nothing happens, well at least I know. If it does, then it does. I'll give it my best shot anyway. Actually, the day after New Years, if I haven't heard from him, I am going to ask him to take his phone out of my name and I will send back anything of his I have. Do you think? You know, I don't think anyone realises how much I just want to scream right now.

Anyway rd, back to you. Hmmmm, she is conveniently going to be in Florida huh? Interesting! Anyone WOULD think that she's trying to keep an eye on you, or at least be close to you. How do you feel about this? And how are you handling it all? I know it's frustrating, but hang in there. Maybe you'll feel better after the talk. Make sure you ask her where she sees all this going... you can't just be "friends" forever.. you've said yourself she couldn't handle it, and there's no point you putting your life on hold to make her happy if she isn't looking for a relationship with you. UGH, why can't people just say what they want? What is the reason behind her crying etc? Is it an outside problem, or do you think it is related to the 2 of you? I think her and my bf would be a good match. They'd drive each other insane, instead of lumping it on us more normal individuals!!! hehehe!!! Can you imagine the communication... no one would ever say anything... they would just sit around being grumpy/moody/sad/unhappy all the time.

My stomach problems are kicking in again what with all this stress. And I'm not looking forward to going back to work next week. I wish it would all just go away. I haven't had a really bad day for a while now, but I can feel the tide turning...

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