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Thanks for the advice! Anyway, the problem is we really never had closure. Things fell apart literally overnight. When we broke up she moved far away. We still talked alot though. But for certain reasons, I decided that I should cut off ties with her. I would contact her to say 'hi' from time to time, probably because I couldn't let go completely. But we kind of mutually stopped that because we knew it was over. But in looking back, sometimes I wonder if I should have just forgiven her because I did love her. She was my everything. I used to plan ahead when I was with her and always thought at this point in my life she would be there with me. But she's not and it hurts because there was so much more I wanted to share with her. I put in alot in our relationship and I feel now that it was all for nothing. I guess this is common. But for some reason, as of late, I've been thinking about her alot and it kind of hurts. Mind you, it has been years since we have communicated, and I have no idea what she is doing with her life. I've seen other people, but I just can't seem to put my emotions into anybody else because 'it isn't her'. I still get mad when I think about what she did, but in the big picture sometimes I feel I should have dealt with it. They say time heals these wounds, but enough time has passed and I realized that the wounds are not completely healed. That first love can really get you bad I guess.





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