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When I went the personal ad route....I would try to be in as much control of the situation...if I responded to an ad I refused to meet until I had as much info about the person as possible. and there were a few times that I did arrive and physically was initially not attracted by the person. I still kept the date and talked trying to give ita chance...most of the time I found myself feeling the same way and had no problem saying it was nice but honestly not something I saw going any further. I paid my own way and chalked it up to being out there in the com[any of someone and giving myself the chance of meeting somebody special than just being alone for the evening.

I have to say that on my first date with my husband via a personal ad...he was not physically a person that I would immediately be drawn to..he was small framed but handsome and not as tall as I usually preferred...as a matter of fact his ad was very honest....."SWCM 28,light & handsome looking for an ivory girl to spend fun times with" I answered and sent a lengthy letter describing all that I was and everything I was looking for in a relationship and gave a physical description of myself as well. I told him that I felt a little at a disadvantage just having an ad to go by and would promise a phone # after he provided me with more info about himself. Turns out that I didn't quite live up to my promise and he sent another letter requesting that I not allow a half and inch to stand in the way of something good. (He was 5'8" and I was 5'81/2") I was attracted to his wit and charm.... I called him and that was it.....to this day his family claims that he read my letter to them over & over again stating that I was the girl of his dreams and he was sooo out of sorts when I didn't respond right away. Just goes to show you that even if you are not totally attracted to someone physically you may be missing out on the person you are meant to be with.....Goody :D





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