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here is my story, me and this guy broke up when my child was 3 months old. Actually he just came home one day and started packing his crap with his friends outside and i asked why, he wouldnt give me an answer cuz he was drunk and i guess stuck to his gun about wanting to get out, and a coward about admitting that he couldnt handle a family. anyways the last thing i remember him saying to me that stuck in my head was one day i would thank him ,which to this day im a lil confused.......... but am sorta figuring out why its best that he is not here.
at the start of the romance it was wonderful just me and him then we went thru high water that led us back to each other every time. he always would come back and stick thru it, well while i was preg; is when his behavior started to change. i used to be wild and crazy ( partying, drinking, staying out all nite, even drugs sometimes) when i had my child it all stop for my self and for my sons heath and future. now my life has left me with no friends, but no trouble. i dont miss all the good times but i wish i could meet a girlfriend that i could be close to that would just hang out, like a lil sister. you know. but anyways getting back to the subject, he started running off with his friends parting know that i wouldnt do it , left me alone on holidays even, never once got into the preg thing, like how ur so beautiful. sometimes i wonder if he thought i was ugly. i noticed him looking at other women, but the confusing part was he was even attracted towards preg. and i know he thought i was beautiful cuz he always used to tell me that he would never be with someone has beautiful as me. anyways, he started getting num from girls at work, changed job 3 times, starting getting rides to my work with girls dropping him off and even started talking to one of his best friends sister and denied it to me the whole time and until i confronted both of them . which blew up in his face............. do i think he cheated on me????????/ no, but flirting yes. i felt so stressed out my whole pregnancy, and upset. then the baby came the happiest time then thing just started falling apart.

ever since he left he says he will pay for the baby , maybe gives me some money here and there. never once has gone to the store to buy his son anything not even before he was born . he does call everyday to check on him................. we constantly fight , which i fight he just listen and dont have much to say which frustrates me more............

even at one time he said that he was mad at me and was taking it out on me.................. but still nothing has changed.
ive tried all i can to pressure him in to being a good father, as in supporting him, spending time with him, loving on him.................. but nothing ever works............................

but the worst part is , i know he does this on purpose to hurt me and put me thru whatever he thinks i have done to him..............
im learning that i dont need him in my life......... people can read the thread "why am i in love with a guy that is not good for me" and that will explain somethings better...................
but i want him in his son life so bad..............
why is he doing this to him,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, he will turn 11 mo on the 17 of jan.............. i need some friends to talk to and some advice............ also i dont think i actually asked any q i think i more or less just vented
thanks for any replies
i need all the help on this board i can get, i keep to my self and dont have anyone i can trust to talk to ................ so this board does help...........
thanks :angel:

Storm girl i know ill be seeing u on this one lol ;) :wave: so hi and i am thinking of u .............





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