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babe1973, thanks for your insights. This might be silly but I'm a little scared to talk too much about my feelings towards her with her. She knows I love her, but she might be turned off if I don't appear to be secure. She has told me she loves me. But we are free to date other people, although we have not exercised this right.
babe1973, no, I haven't dated anyone else and as far as I know ( I have no reason to doubt this since we are together a lot) that she has either. I think she has felt in her previous relatoinships that she dove in too quickly. Big picture perspective this is still in the early stages of a relationship, I think she is just afraid to completely commit, having an out at this stage makes her feel better. Clearly at some point, and in my opinion soon, we agree that we don't date anyone else. I couldn't, I'm in love with her.

Thanks for the input on not letting her know I'm insecure in the relationship. I really hope I will feel secure at some point.
[QUOTE=ttt1515]babe1973, no, I haven't dated anyone else and as far as I know ( I have no reason to doubt this since we are together a lot) that she has either. I think she has felt in her previous relatoinships that she dove in too quickly. Big picture perspective this is still in the early stages of a relationship, I think she is just afraid to completely commit, having an out at this stage makes her feel better. Clearly at some point, and in my opinion soon, we agree that we don't date anyone else. I couldn't, I'm in love with her.

Thanks for the input on not letting her know I'm insecure in the relationship. I really hope I will feel secure at some point.[/QUOTE]

I strongly suggest that you talk with her about her past relation. I have a feeling that the communication is not very good. This is the most important thing to install in a relationship. After, it's too late. Maybe if she talks to you about her past experiences, you will understand why she is so scared...

I really wish you good luck. I hope this will work out for you. You seem to be a sweet and devoted person. :angel:
Hearttoheart and babe1973 thanks so much for your insightful comments.
[QUOTE=ttt1515]Hearttoheart and babe1973 thanks so much for your insightful comments.[/QUOTE]

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