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Very true hearttoheart... you always steal the good lines first!!! :jester:

I know how hard this can be. I was with my first bf of 5 years between the ages of 15 and 20. When he broke up with me, I thought my world had shattered. I couldn't comprehend how I could go on, or how I could ever love anyone ever again. Like you, we were both very young, so it was a learning experience and we both made mistakes. We were soooo similar in every way, and were really "perfect" for each other, and had an unbelievably deep connection. Everyone was shocked when we split. But you know, I did live through it. My world did not crumble, although it felt like it at the time. And I did love again, after some time. Actually, I loved even deeper. My bf now, well on the outside we are total opposites. Our personalities are totally different, however our values and morals and beliefs are the same. So in a way, we balance each others personalities perfectly.

All I'm trying to say is that I know how hard this time is for you, and I'm really sorry for your sadness. But you will get through it, it will be hard, but you will. And you will find someone to love, who may even be more of a perfect match for you. Sometimes these things just happen in life to prepare us for the REALLY good things to come.

I'm sure that you will always love him in some part. But like others have said, you need some time away from him to grieve and heal. In time, you may be able to be friends... but best friends may be pushing it. If it is over for you two, then it's time to cut your ties and move onto the next exciting chapter of your life. You can talk to him when you feel you have healed enough to be ready, and you can be friends, but don't let it inhibit the next phase of your life. There is so much out there waiting for you to discover!!!

Keep your chin up. Things will get better, and while I hate to say it, time WILL heal you. Just try to keep busy and surround yourself with people who love and care for you and who will support you in this time.

Best wishes to you!!!





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