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HE broke up with me, he said we've grown apart over the past two years. But all of a sudden there spending time together and now were done ? I still love him I probably always will. I am trying to move on I just need to know if she played a bigger part then he's willing to admit. There is a history with this girl, she's always been after him. I agree we are done and he can do what he wants. Of course he still loves me.
pcantona-You've gotten it wrong its my fault for not being clear, I moved out not him. I did not push him away I DIDN'T PUSH HIM TO HER I WAS QUESTIONING WHY HE WAS WITH HER AND WHY HE LIED ABOUT IT I never knew there was a problem with us until he started ditching me to go shopping with her so I thought there was something between them which is why I started to get angry and ask him why he was spending so much time with her alone. Keep in mind his friend has no idea about their chumminess.That's why we started fighting because he couldn't tell me there was something wrong with our relationship. I have always been suspicious of her, and now her BF is too she has bounced from one guy to another at least guys out on their own living wise. My BF admits that she flirts with him I'm not making this up.
[QUOTE=jedoz]HE broke up with me, he said we've grown apart over the past two years. But all of a sudden there spending time together and now were done ? I still love him I probably always will. I am trying to move on I just need to know if she played a bigger part then he's willing to admit. There is a history with this girl, she's always been after him. I agree we are done and he can do what he wants. Of course he still loves me.
pcantona-You've gotten it wrong its my fault for not being clear, I moved out not him. I did not push him away I DIDN'T PUSH HIM TO HER I WAS QUESTIONING WHY HE WAS WITH HER AND WHY HE LIED ABOUT IT I never knew there was a problem with us until he started ditching me to go shopping with her so I thought there was something between them which is why I started to get angry and ask him why he was spending so much time with her alone. Keep in mind his friend has no idea about their chumminess.That's why we started fighting because he couldn't tell me there was something wrong with our relationship. I have always been suspicious of her, and now her BF is too she has bounced from one guy to another at least guys out on their own living wise. My BF admits that she flirts with him I'm not making this up.[/QUOTE]


I know you must be hurting but read the first 5 words in your first sentence.

Leave him alone and you will feel better after a while. Your putting salt into an open wound.
Pcantona- Iím sorry I got angry Iím just not coping too well today. We broke up on 1/5/05 and I just moved out this weekend Iím still very raw. We were under the same roof for a while during our breakup that wasnít easy either sleeping in the same bed we even went grocery shopping. I think your right he considered us over but he never found the courage to tell me. I told him a month ago that I needed to know what he wanted to do break up or work on it and all I got was I donít know I donít know. Finally I pulled it out of him after a month of torture. This is why I was getting so nuts when he was with her and that he was lying to me about it. I mentioned to you that I was suspicious of her and there are a million reasons from all the years we were together to make me suspicious any girl would have felt the same, I have told a few others of some of what sheís done and they all agree sheís after him. I also mentioned that she bounces from guy to guy thatís because sheís on her own no family to take her in she needs to worry about her well being and I think my Ex would be that soft place for her to fall and live. We have pictures of all our friends but none of her alone with him in my apartment while I still lived there. Youíve got to understand that I came back from a business trip and he was different and cold he wouldnít tell me what was up then he goes out with her shopping and then to dinner with her. I didnít know what to think because Iíve always trusted him and now the fact that her BF doesnít know about all this I think is for a good reason, My Ex sayís itís so he doesnít get suspicious, why would he if they were friends? You know my Ex actually called me on Friday right after he left to play poker and asked me if Iíve mentioned any of this to her BF and I said no he said good we donít need him involved too, I said the only reason I havenít said anything to him is in the off chance that Iím misinterpreting this whole thing. He accused me of snooping when I found the pic than later said he wouldnít have put in there if he was hiding something? Yet all the other pics on his phone arenít in there, just that one? I understand we are done and I told him that if he does have feelings for her that he should just tell me now instead of leaving me wondering, yes it will hurt but I feel that I need to know. I donít think he cheated heís not that type of guy really he isnít but I've lost faith for the time being.. We didnt want to let each other go we just kept looking at each other and hugging and even 3 last little kisses. I miss him even though he keeps calling. I don't know how to get through this I have no friends. : (





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