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OMG Bliss u are me!!!

I do all the talking too. And I see my bf twice a week and we talk every day...plus also he does the i love u thingy too....hehehe

I love him too and i have asked him about it and he says sometimes cause we talk so much he has said all thats new and sometimes we are just so comfortable we dont have to talk to enjoy eachothers company.....so i have come to accept that he isnt tooo verbal he is a guy and he isnt a talker but I am....so its nice when u think about it that he does call to say goodnight or I love U.....so to me now that is pretty darn sweet. So what if guys hate phone convos.....the phone isnt the relationship....many people hate phone calls and my man does too.....just keep the convo going and if its getting boring then say "ok hun well i will let u go have a great night talk to u tomorrow" dont make it alot of work for youself.....he loves you and more than likely hes just being a guy, hates talkign on the phone and is probably watchin tv at the same time...hehehehe
[QUOTE=sugarpye]OMG Bliss u are me!!!

I do all the talking too. And I see my bf twice a week and we talk every day...plus also he does the i love u thingy too....hehehe

I love him too and i have asked him about it and he says sometimes cause we talk so much he has said all thats new and sometimes we are just so comfortable we dont have to talk to enjoy eachothers company.....so i have come to accept that he isnt tooo verbal he is a guy and he isnt a talker but I am....so its nice when u think about it that he does call to say goodnight or I love U.....so to me now that is pretty darn sweet. So what if guys hate phone convos.....the phone isnt the relationship....many people hate phone calls and my man does too.....just keep the convo going and if its getting boring then say "ok hun well i will let u go have a great night talk to u tomorrow" dont make it alot of work for youself.....he loves you and more than likely hes just being a guy, hates talkign on the phone and is probably watchin tv at the same time...hehehehe[/QUOTE]

Yeah I'm not sure what the "I love you" thing is about..like it's nice to hear of course, but every 2 minutes its like...I love you too, but do you just not know what else to say? Or do you just want to hear it back? Are you scared of losing me? WHAT? Yeah I'm a worrywart and maybe overreacting a tad but it does bother me that our conversations aren't the best...because having a good conversation with someone is important to me. It's true though that I am lucky to have someone that cares to call me often and tell me how he feels about me. :)

[quote]Men don't like to open up too much. They like to keep some stuff private. Us women, we love to share. This is because we feel that telling everything means that we trust our man and want him to know all about us. Men, on the opposite side, feel that when they are talking about their life it means that they are seeking approval from us. You might want to read "Women are from venus, men are from mars". Not all the book is 100 proven, but in the first chapters, you will understand a lot of things about the way a man thinks.[/quote]

Maybe I'm trying to seek approval as well by sharing. But it's nice to know that he still loves me despite knowing all my flaws and whatnot. But I'd love to give that back and it bothers me that he won't let me. I've attributed it to him just being male but I don't think we should let them off that easy...sometimes I feel like it's an excuse. But I also know you can't change other people...I guess i need to accept that he's not like me.





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