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[QUOTE]When you REALLY love someone you don't fall out of it[/QUOTE]

I have to say I'm not sure I agree with that. My boyfriend and I just broke up because he feels that "different" feeling that you feel, Nick. But I know for sure that there was some serious love and he was "in love" with me for a long time. If that wasn't LOVE than I don't know what is!! Our relationship was like a fairytale. Things changed over personality due to some other issues I have, and just us getting older. I believe that those are the things that he felt broke us apart. He is like you, says he still loves me very much but it is not the same, it is not an "in love" kind of love. It is a general caring kind of love, and the fact that we are so close now.
So I guess my response is, yes, it is possible to fall out of love, but I don't think that means you never were in love. Things change, emotions change, people change...
This is situation is very painful for me and we've been apart for over 2 months. I'm sure your girlfriend will not take it well, but it is better to tell her as soon as possible if you feel this way. Please explain your feelings well, because if she is anything like me, she will feel confused and will not fully understand, so please try to give her the best explanation you can. I know it's not easy because you don't really know WHAT changed.
I won't lie-- this is going to be a bumpy ride. My life for the past few months has not been pretty...but if you feel like this you must get it out before it get's worse and you feel resentment.
Best of luck!!

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