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You care because you still love him and you're still hoping he'll read those self help books he bought and he'll go th therapy faithfully and become the man of your dreams and take you back in his arms and live happily ever after. Let's face it, Gloria Steinem, pardon us, but we all want that. We all want to fall in love with our soulmate, marry, have babies and live happily ever after. Who could blame you for hoping that's how this will turn out? The problem is, your guy has proven himself to be so untrustworthy, that you don't trust his intentions or choices. Not that they're great choices. I fail to see how a man would be a "bad influence" on him more than a woman sleeping in the next bedroom would be a temptation, especially when he seems to want to nail any woman he comes into close contact with, assistants and whatnot. I don't blame you for being jealous and upset. I would think that if he really was working hard to rebuilt your trust in him, he would understand your feelings and get a male roommate. A nice, decent roommate who doesn't drink to excess, do drugs, and has a nice steady girlfriend. How would that be a bad influence??? :confused: :confused: But he's not taking your concerns into consideration. He's just saying "oh, no, I need to room with a woman, a man would be a bad influence, so that's that." Guys seem to think tears will melt a woman's heart, but they make me highly suspicious. If he really wanted to earn your trust back, he wouldn't even consider taking a woman roommate. I think you have a decision to make. You can hang in there a little longer and see how it all will shake out, or you can end it and find someone who doesn't have such a nasty temper and someone who doesn't find it so hard to be honest and kind to you, and who can room with another man without turning into an instant dog. I won't tell you what to do, I won't even tell you which one I would do. And I don't think I have to tell you which one is the choice that puts you first and looks after our feelings and needs.

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