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Rich....I can only share what i know from personal experience. I have a brother who is on marriage #3. All marrriages ended with his having an affair. The second wife was the one he had an affair with when in marriage #1. It ended and as I see it what goes around comes around event thouhg i love both wives dearly. Marriage #3 is not to the woman he had the affair with and hopefully will succeed. My point is that I don't believe that any marriage can survive on a poor foundation. You need to as other posters already reommended, evaluate your marriage and do whatever you can to preserve it and make it happy again. If after these efforts you do not see it as something solid then end it and then pursue the next relationship. the way you have gone about it right now is wrong and hurtful for everyone involved. This is a relationship forum where for the most part people seek advice on how to have successful relationships and as Ruth has already said, not many will be suppotive of an affair which does not preserve or help a relationship out.

You are getting wonderful advice and I really hope it allows you to see what it is you need to do to obtain happiness. Good luck..Goody :wave:
you need to finish what you've started so to speak.

It's always a good idea to end a relationship before starting a new one. Look at how many tragic endings we hear about in the news. Murders/suicides all because a spouse was cheating. Having an affair is a completlely selfish act. Justifying it because you're marriage is crap is just weak. Even if you end this relationship it won't be long before someone else comes along, once a cheater always a cheater especially if they are getting away with it.

Can you tell I've been cheated on? It sucks big time, and it's the cruelest thing you can do to the mother of your children. Believe me your kids will never totally respect you if they ever find out.

Get your divorce, your wife deserves better!





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