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Red,

You continue to analyze his every move and it keeps ripping you apart. I always quote a former poster on something he posted somewhere else on this board. It always made sense to me so I will say it again:
"The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again, and expecting a different outcome".
This is so true.

Everytime he has done or said something, you examine it, disect it and try to make an educated guess of his true meaning. All this has done is make you crazy and sad.

I guess it's just hard to see and accept that some people you think love and care about you, just crap on your head and they don't care. Regardless of his issues, problems, blah, blah, blah, the bottom line is that he should have been honest with you from the start. He wasn't. He lied, cheated and then made you feel that you had done something wrong. You, months later are still hurting from it.

Some broken relationships can be healed enough to be friends - However, most can't. I am a FIRM believer this relationship is NOT one of them. Besides, why would you want him as a friend? Not only does he not deserve you as a girlfriend, he does not deserve your friendship either.

I guess at this point (until you ARE over him COMPLETELY and in love with Prince Charming) you will need to make yourself numb to him. This is why working with him is so hard. I wouldn't believe anything that comes out of his mouth. Don't over analyze things that he says and try and figure out why he is saying them, or what the "true meaning" of it is. It doesn't matter what it means - He's a liar anyway.

I, personally, wouldn't be anything to him - no friends, no nothing, and I would NEVER let him in your hotel room again. Don't ALLOW him to get that close to you because you are not at a place where it's healthy for you yet. And though I think deep down in your heart you still hold hope for the two you, I would spend the hope energy somewhere else and for someone else.

And at the end of the day,,,He doesn't deserve you Red, he just doesn't. Don't waste your time on him anymore.





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