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Hey guys
I wrote a week or so ago to say that everyone's life (my ex's and best friends) seems to be going better than alright and mine goes from bad to worse! - In explaining why I mentioned someone who I'd been on a couple of dates with, once out with another couple (who set us up) and once on our own, an all day ate for food and iceskating. Before this we'd been texting each other every day for a couple of weeks to get to know each other. I explained that we got on really well, both seemed to like each other and hinted at going out again (him probably more than me but that's only because I'm quite shy!) The last thing he said to me when I got out of his car was to text him, which I did to make sure he got home safe, he had a long drive and had never been to where I live before.
Well, he never replied to my text (or the one I sent to the next day). I assumed he wasn't interested although this is certainly not the way he came across. The friend who set us up couldn't understand it because he'd told her boyfriend (they're workmates) that he really liked me! but she thought maybe he had some problems at home (he's in the RAF and lives away from the family home).
So, it's now been two and a half weeks and I though I was never going to hear from him again but yesterday he text me saying:
'sorry I've been a bit distant. I've had a lot on my mind recently. I don't mean to be so selfish, I hope you're alright.'
I replied to say it's ok, hope you're ok too, you know where I am if you need to chat. - Short and sweet right, not too pushy!!
He hasn't replied yet! - Please help guys! - what does anyone think the text means? - was that his way of telling me he won't be contacting me again, but if so then why bother to send that text in the first place when he could have just left it? - I really liked him and would love to see him again!
Many of you said forget about him he's not worth it, but I can't help thinking there must be something wrong!
Thanks for all thoughts!

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