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Maybe I am just a suspicious person but my radar is going up on this!!

Maybe there are some good answers but I have to ask:

1. What kind of work does he do that would allow him only 3 hours per week to be with you?

2. What kind of medical problem would prevent him from having sex except 3 times a year?

3. Have you actually been to his house?

I'm sure this guy has some good qualities but to me the bad far out weighs the good. In my opinion this guy is making you feel pretty down about yourself. When you don't feel good about yourself and someone comes along and drags you down even further -you lose all sef esteem that you may have once had. I know I've been there. For about 10 years after my divorce I dated guys that today I am totally ashamed that I ever went out with them, My self esteem was so low that I didn't think I could do any better. Several years ago I stopped dating, I got a great job, bought a house and I am slowly regaing my self esteem. I know what I want now and I don't want to settle for anything else.

It is so hard to look at the truth when you feel that you would rather be with someone than being alone. Just please ask yourself, is this how you want to live the rest of your life? Write down the good qualities on 1 side and the bad qualities on the other side and you will probably find the bad outweighs the good.

Try to make some goals for yourself if you and this guy breaks up. And also be thinking of your son he won't be with you one day. I realized along time ago my son was much more important to me than any man.

Good luck to you!!

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