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My ex (whom I would consider my first love) and I broke up about 7 years ago after he cheated on me. I never forgave him for what he has done and he is not a part of my life.

I am now in a wonderful relationship for over a year that will lead to marriage in the next few years. He has given me a beautiful promise ring and we will be engaged hopefully by 2006.

He does so much for me and I him, and we are madly in love with each other. We have our occasional arguments, and our relationship isn't perfect, but it's the best relationship I've ever had.

A couple of weeks ago I began dreaming of my ex out of the blue and the dreams were about when we were still together in college and the dreams will not stop. It's not a reoccuring dream, it's different each time, but in each dream I'm with my ex when we were still dating. The weird part is in one dream I remember pulling away and telling my ex I'm with someone else now and that I have moved on but the dreams keep happening anyway.

I feel guilty for this because in the morning when my boyfriend asks me if I had any good dreams or if I dreamt about him I don't know what to say. I ended up telling him one morning that I dreamt about college times, which was very true, but didn't get into specifics (i.e. the ex) out of fear of hurting his feelings or making him insecure.

I feel like I'm cheating on my boyfriend in my dreams because I constantly dream about my ex, and I can't seem to control or figure out why my ex is haunting me in my dreams. I think about my boyfriend 24/7 as it is, and I don't understand why I can't get this out of my head.

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