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My girlfriend of nearly 3 years (would have been 3 years today) broke up with me last weekend. I am a sophomore in college and she is a freshman and we've been doing a long-distance relationship. We had been having on and off problems, but we seemed to pull through them all. However things finally culminated and she broke up with me. She said that she needs to be on her own for a while and that she isn't closing the door on us. I found out just prior to her dumping me that she hasn't been exactly truthful. She never cheated on me (she claims) but she has done some things that some people may consider on the brink of cheating. I've been in college for almost 2 years and I have been completely loyal to her. I love her way too much to even consider risking it. However, we've always had an insecurity issue. My family situation and therapy has guided me into realizing that I have a trust issue. I've tried working on it, but I always lose the battle. I'm always second-guessing and thinking "what if" scenarios. This past week has been horrible. And I've been horrible. During the day while I'm in class, I am okay, but when I'm walking around or in my dorm, I get down and I feel as if I need to talk to her. I have crossed the line and I received an email from her parents and now I feel absolutely horrible. I can't believe that I let it get to this, but I can't just let it go. I love this girl so much. She's been there for me for so long. She says that we'll talk when we get home from school in May and the possibility of us getting back together isn't ruled out. I guess my questions are: Is she really serious about not closing the door on us or is that something women just say? What can I do to stop the harrassment and deal with the situation better? How can I fix the trust and insecurity issues? Thank you sooo much for listening.

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