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Hey There Juicy...

It's obvious to me that your ex, always needs someone there by his side or to know that he can always have something lined up (total sign of weakness) emailing the girls, he is waiting for a response like, "I have been thinking about you too" or "I miss you too"! I guarantee since you left him, he has felt miserable, like a nobody and is just reaching out to the girls to make himself feel better. I be he regrets breaking up with you...b/c you said in your post that you 2 have broken up and gotten back together many of times. Your ex probably called things off, thinking it was just a "normal" break-up, but you honestly left this time and never came back! You said he tried contacting you after that, but your didnt to me it sounds like your ex cried wolf too many times...b/c this time you didn't come running back. He can't stand being alone...he has to feel wanted from somewhere, or he winds up being miserable.

I can totally relate to how you feel...b/c I went through the same thing with my ex. We dated for about a year and a half and after a while I called things off. Just like your relationship, we broke up probably every other week, then would get back together the next day. I was just drained and had enough...I couldn't take her baggage and arguing anymore...It was making me weak and sooo miserable. To her, she probably thought that it was a "normal" break up and I would be there the next day to resolve things...but I wasnt. Thats when she started reaching out to ex b/f's an ex guy friends (who she claims she disliked and didn't want to have anything to with them). She was weak and couldn't handle things on her own...she needed someone there to make her feel wanted and secure. I was devastated to say goodbye to her...we always saw a future in us. I did the mature thing though and took time to myself and found myself again...I didn't need to run to anyone else to heal my pain. Looking back now, it was probably one of the best decisions I have ever made...why constantly fight with someone and why break up every other week?! Thats not how relationships are suppose to be...your suppose to come closer together, not push eachother away. It was definitely not healthy.

It's been about 5 or 6 months since we broke up...and I still have to put up with her drama. She does things to get under my skin, even though I shouldnt let it bother me, but to some extent, it does (I see her out everywhere and she tries to make me jealous or cause drama). I just cant believe that someone I was with for a while could act in such a manner...that wasnt the real her, but now it seems like I never knew the real her! Just like your case here. I know it bothers you about what he is doing...and I guarantee, if you went back to him, you guys would be back together, but you have to be the stronger person and know that there is something better and healthier out there for you. The more you don't worry about what he is doing or up to, the more you come closer to finding what you need.

I hope this helped some...take care hun! :)

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