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Allright, let me just be brutally honest here... take it as you wish.
Any guy going to a strip club is not just hanging out. He's going to look at naked women. His best friends gf is a stripper, so now he gets to meet these women and get to know them. That whole atmosphere is full of temption, and lets face it... 90% of those women don't have high moral values. One can only hold off on temptation for so long. Sooner or later, if temptation keeps presenting itself, he's going to cave. He won't think about the reprecussions or consequences, he'll get caught up in the moment and do something he'll probably regret, and you'll have to confront just for putting your trust in him.
I've known some strippers. I've got a couple friends dating strippers. For many of them it's not a job, it's a lifestyle and nothing positive can come of it. I'm not saying this is what's going to happen but, for example: when the bar closes at 2 or 3am, there's a big party going on somewhere that many of the strippers will attend. Do you trust him enough, while under the influence of alcohol, that he'd say; "Thanks anyway, but i'm gonna just go see my gf instead".
There's a reason many many men love strippers. They're pretty, they're dirty, and they'll do things most women won't. It's just a simple fact.
But, you know him better than anyone. I just know a lot of men who've caved, and i'm letting you know about them.
Hope I don't offend anyone, that's not my intention. Hey, my childrens mother stripped for 3 months when she was 18.
Going every once in a while is probably harmless, but "hanging out" there may mean trouble.
[QUOTE=edved2001]Allright, let me just be brutally honest here... take it as you wish.
Any guy going to a strip club is not just hanging out. He's going to look at naked women. His best friends gf is a stripper, so now he gets to meet these women and get to know them. That whole atmosphere is full of temption, and lets face it... 90% of those women don't have high moral values. One can only hold off on temptation for so long. Sooner or later, if temptation keeps presenting itself, he's going to cave. He won't think about the reprecussions or consequences, he'll get caught up in the moment and do something he'll probably regret, and you'll have to confront just for putting your trust in him.
I've known some strippers. I've got a couple friends dating strippers. For many of them it's not a job, it's a lifestyle and nothing positive can come of it. I'm not saying this is what's going to happen but, for example: when the bar closes at 2 or 3am, there's a big party going on somewhere that many of the strippers will attend. Do you trust him enough, while under the influence of alcohol, that he'd say; "Thanks anyway, but i'm gonna just go see my gf instead".
There's a reason many many men love strippers. They're pretty, they're dirty, and they'll do things most women won't. It's just a simple fact.
But, you know him better than anyone. I just know a lot of men who've caved, and i'm letting you know about them.
Hope I don't offend anyone, that's not my intention. Hey, my childrens mother stripped for 3 months when she was 18.
Going every once in a while is probably harmless, but "hanging out" there may mean trouble.[/QUOTE]


You are totally not being fair by saying this...ALL MEN don't feel the same way you do, and so be it that these are the clubs you have been to, but the upscale ones the strippers are there for the MONEY and the MONEY alone, they aren't looking for relationships with the dog men that go there and get lap dances. :rolleyes:





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