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Just go! and have lunch with the guy. Since he is visiting from out of town, this is not likely to be a regular occurance. Your intentions are innocent and lunch will most likely be in a public place. There is nothing wrong with seeing an ex for lunch to catch up on what and how they are doing after 12 years. Being able to understand something this simple is a sign of maturity or a sign that at least you are not 18 years old and insecure anymore. I don't see it as a big deal or where there is anything wrong with it.

Don't worry about it! Go enjoy your lunch.

I don't think you even have to tell your husband about it, but it wouldn't hurt if you do so either. If he dissaproves or doesn't feel comfortable about it after you tell him, don't go to lunch. If you think he will dissaprove, dont tell him.

I can't and won't be in a relationship if it is going to be based on lack of trust, suffering from insecurities, lack of confidence, or lack of understanding. Why should I? It's not worth it. I don't need it and I can get along in life without it just fine.

Gumby is my HERO!

HOOP! ( We are resilient!) LOL :D





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