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It's been four weeks since my fiance of four and half years left me. I've been finding it really hard to move on even though everyone I know has told me that I am better off without him. Here's what happened:
1. He left because he wanted more space for himself. We were young when we first got together and he wanted to go out with his friends more. etc.
2. Two weeks later he came back saying that he was sorry and that he wanted to be with me - I fell for it and said he could come home.
3. A week later we had an arguement because he was talking to dirty women on the internet and was being sneaky about it, he left and four weeks later he hasnt come back.
Ive had to move out of our house and back with my parents, we have a one year old puppy called George. Since he left he has given me his reasons:
. He wants more space
. He wants more money to himself.
. He doesn't want to be with me anymore even though he apparently still loves me.

He has maintained throughout all of this that he has never cheated on me.

Tonight he told me that he has been going on dates with a girl that he works with, although when I asked who it was, he said that she doesnt work with him anymore. He refuses to tell me any more about her other than that it has been going on for a few weeks.

Until I heard this I felt like I was doing so well. Now I feel like I'm back at square one, wanting him to come back.

I dont know what to do. Ive got people telling me what I should be thinking and what i should be feeling. Im at a loss.
Smellyfeet:

Did you read my post hun? I think you should go back over it again.

1. Be patient with yourself ;)

2. When feeling frustrated/edgy - take 5 very deep breathes :bouncing:

Remind yourself of the following:

_____ can never be right for you!

Honey bottom line here- someone that wants space, is hiding things from you, wants more money to themself, and doesn't want to be with you anymore is not I repeat NOT marriage material....you have to find a way to move on. :wave:
[QUOTE=here4support]Smellyfeet:

Did you read my post hun? I think you should go back over it again.

1. Be patient with yourself ;)

2. When feeling frustrated/edgy - take 5 very deep breathes :bouncing:

Remind yourself of the following:

_____ can never be right for you!

Honey bottom line here- someone that wants space, is hiding things from you, wants more money to themself, and doesn't want to be with you anymore is not I repeat NOT marriage material....you have to find a way to move on. :wave:[/QUOTE]
I thought that I was doing ok before he told me about the new girl. I had been going out with my friends and not crying at all. Now i just feel like im back at the beginning and having to go through it all again. At this point i dont know how to move on cos its taking all i have to try and get back to the point i was at before. Im so angry with him, i just dont know how he could get over me so quickly.





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