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I'm so sorry for how things have turned out for you Pink. You said that he says mean things when he is angry, so perhaps if you give him some time to calm down he will realise his error and apologise to you. You never know how things will turn out. There is always hope.

However, if he continues on like this and does not want the relationship anymore, then please believe me, that you will get through it. I had a bf from the age of 15 - 20, we meant everything to each other, his family was my family, we were joined at the hip, and no one ever thought we'd be apart. But he met some other girl and drifted away from me. The pain was immense, as is the pain I feel now knowing that I have to let go of my current bf of 7 years. I thought I would die without him, that life was over... I didn't even know where to start. My situation was so similar to yours, it's scary. But you know what, I got through. It was by no means easy, but I loved him enough to respect that he had made a decision to not be with me. I didn't go out for revenge, I didn't try to hurt him... I just wished him well and much happiness and walked away with my dignity. After all, I'd loved him for 1/4 of my life, what was the point of being nasty. And he respected me for that. Honestly, he did. I grew as a person, became strong, became mature, learnt lessons. If his new girl had not trapped him by falling pregnant, I have no doubt he would have come back. We were just 2 peas in a pod. I'm not saying that this will happen for you, but what i am saying is that you will get through. It will be painful, hurtful, and sometimes you will feel like you won't make it. But you will. And you will come out stronger, wiser and depending on how you handle yourself, filled with much pride in yourself. He may even respect you for that. Just take one day at a time, surround yourself with family and friends that will help you to not dwell on things, and start to teach yourself to live your life without him... if that is what is meant to be. You are young and will have so many opportunities, so it's not over for you... it's really just the beginning... it just doesn't feel like it now.

I wish I could say something to take the pain away for you, but it's impossible. Just be sure to make yourself the better person here... just because he was nasty doesn't mean you should be. Perhaps you could send him a letter or message of some sort apologising for your behaviour (which I hope that you will remember for the future), respecting his decision, and telling him that you love/care for him and just wish him all the very best for happiness.

Pink, if it's meant to be, it will be. Things really do happen for a reason. Believe in that. I know from experience.

Best wishes to you Pink... you will get through this tough time. Just be patient with yourself.

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