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I went through the same thing. my best freind/ fiance left me for another man (they broke up a month later when she discovered he has been cheating) ironic. It's been 4 years and i think about her every day still. I cried every night for a year. There were a few times I stuck a loaded gun in my mouth and tried to think of a reason not to pull the trigger. My brother was the only reason. I didnt want him to be guilty that he couldnt save me. I still have no desire to live without her. When you find your other half, and she leaves you, one becomes only half a peson. empty and cold. There is a hole in my heart nothing could ever fill again. It never gets better. ever.


interesting mix...she and I just bumped into eachother in an airport of another city and exchanged numbers. we started talking again and I'm going to spend the day with her in 3 weeks. She has someone new and they live together, so i dont want to interfere. He seems like a really cool guy and I'm glad she is happy. I told her i want to be friends and I just want to be a part of her life. It's not true. I love her and I want her same as always. But I know she doesnt want me, and she loves someone else, and i know even if she did want me back, the relationship has turned sour and bitter with resentment, guilt and pain. I wish I never saw her. I havent slept without sleeping pills in weeks. I started crying again. I know what's best for me, but I just cant let go fo her. it's too hard.

The best thing to do is never speak to your ex again. move to another city,change your number and move on with your life. He has a better chance of becoming somewhat normal that way. You mentioned the breakup was mutual. That's a good sign he's not ****ed up like me. My breakup was not mutual. You will never be freinds. You will only keep him from finding peace or a new love. anyone who says otherwise isn't being honest with themselves or has never truely deeply been in love and doesnt know **** about what they're saying.
[QUOTE=ducati999]The best thing to do is never speak to your ex again. move to another city,change your number and move on with your life. He has a better chance of becoming somewhat normal that way. You mentioned the breakup was mutual. That's a good sign he's not ****ed up like me. My breakup was not mutual. You will never be freinds. You will only keep him from finding peace or a new love. anyone who says otherwise isn't being honest with themselves or has never truely deeply been in love and doesnt know **** about what they're saying.[/QUOTE]
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There [I]are[/I] people who are able to remain friends after a breakup.

If this guy has a problem with just being friends, then HE needs to SPEAK UP or stop contact himself. It's not her responsibility to read this guys mind or take care of his feelings for him.





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