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AGGHHHH !!!!!!! guys i don't know what to say I'm having so many things running through my head at this point. YES its another post about Porn.....

About a month ago my boyfriend came home to tell me he bought a surprise for us "the paris hilton sex tape" so i at first was very hurt and told him no then after a few days i thought hey at least he told me he obviously wants to watch it together so i agreed to and it was fine. Then, I went snooping in his car to see what else he bought and found 3 soft core magazines. I felt cheated on thats the best was to describe it.
Our sex life has been good lately sometimes 2 or 3 times a day. He is going to the gym and told me his testostorone is way up. Well........ the other day i lost my eyeliner so i went in his car to find it and YEAH the porn mags were out... i'm really frustrated because I was home all day long(i am always there because i have classes in the morning while hes working so im here all the time when he is and im always willing!)
So what could he be doing? is he masturbating in his car somewhere?? because thats really sick if he is! i also don't understand why if i was home. Reading other posts about this i realize its something that guys just like to do but im worried that he is just getting out of hand. I admit that I like porn and i like looking at it by myself too sometimes but i dont do it when he's here and willing!
I think a screw is loose in this mans head! today he came home from work and said he watched one in one guys car during lunch break with a few of the guys and continued to tell me about how the girl was getting slammed by three different guys (in detail!) i just ignored him and said NOTHING! and yes the DVD was his! I've been real down to earth about this and been trying to let him know that im comfortable with it but im worried that he is getting addicted to it. I did not tell him that i knew about the magazines but its really bothering me.
could he be unsatisfied with our sex life? I've tried to spice things up buying edible panties, watching porn together, longer foreplay.... he's still looking at these magazines and possibly masterbating. Is it possible hes just LOOKING at them? and thats all?
How can I make myself more comfortable w/ this? Since he doesnt drink anymore is it possible he might be switching addictions? or could it really be the testorone level being up ?(NO STEROID USE I SWEAR)
Someone please comfort me and give some advice.
I set plans with a friend to go to a sex shop and buy a vibrator or a dildo and "accidently" leave it out to make him jealous and know that i am also getting myself off. Is this a good idea? will it give him a taste of his own medicine?
:bouncing: [QUOTE=user0326]AGGHHHH !!!!!!! guys i don't know what to say I'm having so many things running through my head at this point. YES its another post about Porn.....

About a month ago my boyfriend came home to tell me he bought a surprise for us "the paris hilton sex tape" so i at first was very hurt and told him no then after a few days i thought hey at least he told me he obviously wants to watch it together so i agreed to and it was fine. Then, I went snooping in his car to see what else he bought and found 3 soft core magazines. I felt cheated on thats the best was to describe it.
Our sex life has been good lately sometimes 2 or 3 times a day. He is going to the gym and told me his testostorone is way up. Well........ the other day i lost my eyeliner so i went in his car to find it and YEAH the porn mags were out... i'm really frustrated because I was home all day long(i am always there because i have classes in the morning while hes working so im here all the time when he is and im always willing!)
So what could he be doing? is he masturbating in his car somewhere?? because thats really sick if he is! i also don't understand why if i was home. Reading other posts about this i realize its something that guys just like to do but im worried that he is just getting out of hand. I admit that I like porn and i like looking at it by myself too sometimes but i dont do it when he's here and willing!
I think a screw is loose in this mans head! today he came home from work and said he watched one in one guys car during lunch break with a few of the guys and continued to tell me about how the girl was getting slammed by three different guys (in detail!) i just ignored him and said NOTHING! and yes the DVD was his! I've been real down to earth about this and been trying to let him know that im comfortable with it but im worried that he is getting addicted to it. I did not tell him that i knew about the magazines but its really bothering me.
could he be unsatisfied with our sex life? I've tried to spice things up buying edible panties, watching porn together, longer foreplay.... he's still looking at these magazines and possibly masterbating. Is it possible hes just LOOKING at them? and thats all?
How can I make myself more comfortable w/ this? Since he doesnt drink anymore is it possible he might be switching addictions? or could it really be the testorone level being up ?(NO STEROID USE I SWEAR)
Someone please comfort me and give some advice.
I set plans with a friend to go to a sex shop and buy a vibrator or a dildo and "accidently" leave it out to make him jealous and know that i am also getting myself off. Is this a good idea? will it give him a taste of his own medicine?[/QUOTE]





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