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Hey...thanks to everyone who replied.

You are all right and I feel so empowered now that I have gotten angry about the situation and have totally come to the realization that eventhough I may not want to be in a serious relationship I can still be more casual with someone who can respect my feelings more. I think that I was just going through a period where I was slightly insecure (possible due to the way that I left my past relationship) and I was willing to put up with a bunch of ******** from this new guy because I was so happy to be getting the attention and I just want him to like me so badly. The funny thing is that when I really think about him and our relationship I am not even sure if I like HIM that much. I just wanted him to want me. Is that pathetic or what? I realized that I can't rely on someone else to make me happy or feel good about myself. I also can't give anyone else control over my emotional state. He was making feel awful about myself towards the end because I didn't understand why he didn't want to be with me. I think the hardest thing about situations like this one is to learn to not take things personally. It's too easy to come to the conclusion that there is obviously something wrong with you otherwise they would want more with you. I thought to myself am I not smart enough, beautiful enough, etc... Well, that's a bunch of crap becaues I know that I am a good catch and he is just a stupid, selfish, immature jerk and I am tired of making excuses for his behavior. If he didn't even have enough respect to call me and say things weren't going to work out for him, that says alot about someones character.

I don't think that he was acting about having feelings for me, but I definitely do deserve better and am not going to settle anymore.

Thanks everyone!

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