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Thank you all very much for the advice! First of all, I really don't think there's another woman, and I asked him and he said no. Of course, he could be lying, but he does work hard at his 2 jobs and he always gives me his pay stubs, so I know how much he's working. But anything could be happening at this point--all I know is he is definitely not interested in any physical contact (including sex) with me. It's been atleast 3 weeks since we've kissed, for God's sakes! SO sad.....

This may sound bad, but if he was having an affair, atleast I would know why all of this would be happening. It would be an answer....Yeah, I would be devestated, but I think it would help me move on with my life a whole lot easier! I don't think he would ever admit it, though....

Thanks for the advice on nursing and cosmetology...I'll definitely check into it. I was actually looking into getting my associates in the medical field, but the smaller school I was looking at was SO expensive!! (College America) $18,000 for student loans, even with income deductions. Is that the norm??? Guess I'm 4 years out of the loop when it comes to the job/school market! LOL

The problem I'm having with kicking him out, besides him not going willingly, is the fact that I have been nice through this whole situation so far. I feel that things will get worse if I tell him to leave sternly, and he just might go through with the divorce just to spite me. That's the kind of person he is....God, all of this is making me see what a jerk he has been for the past month!! I swear the only things he cares about is himself, work, being alone, and watching tv. He wouldn't even read our 3 yr old a story tonight because it was too much of an effort. Again, so sad......

Thanks for the help! Please keep it coming, I need to talk this out :)





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