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I know Greeneyes, and Thank you:) Trust me, I've been hurt so BADLY before, and this time I am not going to throw caution to the wind. At this point, I feel I only had a few dates with this guy and even though I like him and enjoyed his company/conversation/kissing him very much, I am not in any way attached to him. It's true that men like a challenge, but also to a point. The guy I was going out with before NG, I wasn't really that attracted to him, and eventually he sensed that. I was acting kind of cool and flaky with him, but not as a result of any game but simply because it wasn't in me to really fall for him, and after some time, he gave up on me as well. So, I think it's really mostly the insecure and low-self esteem guys who can't give up on the girls who give them the cold shoulder. I think that guy knew what he wanted and saw I didn't have the hots for him, and so he moved on and found someone else who liked him, which I definitely respect. I don't want someone to give up on me immediately, but I don't want some desperate guy to pursue me either, despite the obvious lack of interest on my part. In NG's defense, I was logging in every day for the whole time he was away, and my profile blatantly said I was attracted to tall guys, while he's not tall. So, maybe he's feeling a bit insecure too? I don't know, only time will tell. But if he acts only lukewarm about me, I will definitely stop talking to him. At this point in life, I know I only want someone who is really, really crazy about me and I don't want to settle for anything else! :bouncing:
[QUOTE=SophiaM]I know Greeneyes, and Thank you:) Trust me, I've been hurt so BADLY before, and this time I am not going to throw caution to the wind. At this point, I feel I only had a few dates with this guy and even though I like him and enjoyed his company/conversation/kissing him very much, I am not in any way attached to him. It's true that men like a challenge, but also to a point. The guy I was going out with before NG, I wasn't really that attracted to him, and eventually he sensed that. I was acting kind of cool and flaky with him, but not as a result of any game but simply because it wasn't in me to really fall for him, and after some time, he gave up on me as well. So, I think it's really mostly the insecure and low-self esteem guys who can't give up on the girls who give them the cold shoulder. I think that guy knew what he wanted and saw I didn't have the hots for him, and so he moved on and found someone else who liked him, which I definitely respect. I don't want someone to give up on me immediately, but I don't want some desperate guy to pursue me either, despite the obvious lack of interest on my part. In NG's defense, I was logging in every day for the whole time he was away, and my profile blatantly said I was attracted to tall guys, while he's not tall. So, maybe he's feeling a bit insecure too? I don't know, only time will tell. But if he acts only lukewarm about me, I will definitely stop talking to him. At this point in life, I know I only want someone who is really, really crazy about me and I don't want to settle for anything else! :bouncing:[/QUOTE]


YOU GO GIRL! You deserve the best and don't you EVER forget it! :D





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