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Greeneyes, I really hope everything works out great for you. Whether Nick is good enough for you or not, I have no doubt that you will be just fine and manage to keep your life full and happy, guy or no guy. It's really hard to determine much from his email when taken out of context, but something about it seems to me like he's pushing a little too hard. Did he just get out of a long-term relationship? It sounds a little like he's used to being seriously involved with a woman and trying to recreate that ASAP now that he's met a woman he likes as much as you. I don't think there's necessarily anything shady about that, but for your sake, I hope you continue to take things slowly and proceed cautiously. He definitely sounds like a nice guy who is into you, which is great! Congratulations on meeting someone you like, and please don't worry any more than necessary about how things will unfold in the future. You are clearly doing the best you can, and I'm sure that everything will work out well in the end. That said, I do hope that you keep your guard up a little bit and make sure he's not looking to get serious too quickly to avoid having to deal with being single if he is indeed on the rebound, though I'm not sure why I think that. I'd hate to see you get your hopes up and become attached to him and then end up disappointed...he seems to be doing everything right, but it does seem like you're falling for him rather quickly, which could be dangerous. I know you like him a lot, but it's still early, and anything can happen--my advice is to keep your options open, keep considering other dating possibilities, and just see how things unfold with Nick over time. I will have my fingers crossed that everything keeps going great for you guys :), but just in case, it's not a bad idea to protect your feelings and not invest too much of your emotions and future hopes in him this early on. I hope this post didn't seem overly negative, but I do think Ruth may have a point that he sounds more interested in getting sexually involved or serious in other ways before you're ready, so please be careful. I'm sure your instincts will serve you well, and I wish you all the best...please keep us posted, OK?

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