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:confused: my boyfriend is going out drinking this weekend with his ex work mates, i am not invited, not that i ever have been but he usually goes to his old work do's simply because his old mates are there and they have a laugh, but as it's a work do there are females there too, so it would be nice if i could go some time! but i am never invited so i always end up insecure and fed up when the time comes that my boyfriend says ''im going out drinking with my mates next week'' the insecuritys are have about it are simple and im hoping anyone (espescially the men in here) can give me advice on how i can feel better about the situation and how i can think posotively and not negativly about it. i know i am a very jealous insecure person and i believe theres nothing better than self help, so if anyone can tell me how to feel better and if any men can tell me what its like going out drinking without your girlfriend? id be very greatful
[QUOTE=cuddlyy]:confused: my boyfriend is going out drinking this weekend with his ex work mates, i am not invited, not that i ever have been but he usually goes to his old work do's simply because his old mates are there and they have a laugh, but as it's a work do there are females there too, so it would be nice if i could go some time! but i am never invited so i always end up insecure and fed up when the time comes that my boyfriend says ''im going out drinking with my mates next week'' the insecuritys are have about it are simple and im hoping anyone (espescially the men in here) can give me advice on how i can feel better about the situation and how i can think posotively and not negativly about it. i know i am a very jealous insecure person and i believe theres nothing better than self help, so if anyone can tell me how to feel better and if any men can tell me what its like going out drinking without your girlfriend? id be very greatful[/QUOTE]

It's normal for men to want to socialize alone with their buddies, so don't let it bother you. They all do it and it's important to them. Why don't you have a ladies' night out with some of your girlfriends every week! :bouncing:





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