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Hello all,
I have been thinking about how to sort out this problem for long, and it really irritates me. I used to have a close friend C, but not a bf, and there was a period of time when I didn't see him. In this period, I met my boyfriend S, and then C changed a lot since he saw me with S. He started to send me emails that have sexual content, which I showed to my bf, just to be honest with him. He then started to turn up near my workplace, uninvited and repeatedly. He left his keys and address for me the security man. And nothing would stop him. He even sent messages to my bf saying things like he's back to England for me and that he would not leave before he have me. I explained to him that this not acceptable and I suggested to S that his behaviour showed that he was desperate and that I was not doing anything wrong to encourage it. But my bf thinks that I did not do enough to stop him. He suggested that I should give up my job or report him to the police. I thought that both suggestions are unreasonable because the police might not consider it harrassment, and if they do, C might grow more aggressive, although I do feel intimidated by C's presence in front of my work almost on a daily basis (Whenever he is in England). I understand that this does get on my and S's nerves but I just can't think of a way to stop him. I have got to admit that during some arguments with S I turned once or twice to this person and cried in front of him. This, however was before all his wierd behaviour started. I don't know what to do. I need advice please.





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