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[QUOTE=greeneyes100]You are asking a very hard question to answer. The only thing I have learned is "it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all". The reason is you always have the memories to look back on. I will always have the memories of that dynamite romance with my old boyfriend. The next time I fall that hard (if I do), I don't think I would hold back. You always take a risk when you make yourself vulnerable to someone else, but it's worth it. Sometimes...you have to lose in order to win.

The best advice I can give is to give of yourself in increments and don't give too much too soon. It seems like you are doing just that. Keep us posted!

I might write a book about you and NG someday! :)

Hope this helps.[/QUOTE]

Thanks GE, that really did help. Wow, a book, I would be honored--you can ask me for an autograph anytime! :D However, I'm not sure if you'd have enough material for a book; perhaps a short story is more like it...

Looks like NG is ALREADY getting cold feet without me even doing or saying anything wrong. Last night he called me but he sounded so casual and just aksed me what I was doing this weekend. I said "not sure yet, and you?" And he told me he might have to do some work on the apt he is renting out to someone so he doesn't know yet, but should know by Thursday if he can go out with me on Sat., and on Sun. he can't cause it's his mom's birthday. Needless to say, it sounded like BS to me, so I said I might have already made other plans by Thursday. I might have sounded kind of cold because I haven't seen him all week so I thought he should be looking forward to going out this weekend, as I was. After that I sort of ended the conversation quickly saying I was tired and had to go. Well, this morning he sent me an email that I sounded different on the phone last night and he hopes he hasn't said anything to offend me. I haven't responded yet, and I don't even know WHAT to write. I mean, it's not that I'm offended; I'm just disappointed he isn't dying to see me already, but that's not something you can demand of someone. It's either in them or not. I just don't get it, really. You spend ONE weekend (not even a full weekend) with a man, and immediately he gets scared you're going to take over his life?? :rolleyes: I don't get it. Also, he was asking me some weird questions, such as would I sign a prenuptual agreement, hypothetically speaking, of course, and pointing out in a somber fashion that so many of his friends are now divorced. I don't know...maybe NG is not the guy for me after all..:( I'm not sure how I should respond to him :confused:





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