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Sophia, I think it's quite normal to get scared when you start getting close to someone, because you are so afraid of losing them. Just try to remain confident that everything will work out. I know it's hard because I get really scared too. I'll tell ya'll this little story about what happened when I got scared of getting hurt.

When I was 26, I fell very much in love with a man who was my age (who, inicidentally I couldn't stand when I first met him); but, he kept pursuing me and I fell for him! He did have some fear of commitment, but I believe he would have committed if I had not been so afraid of rejection. I think it had a lot to do with my Dad leaving when I was 11, because we were so close. I felt abandoned by someone I loved very much, my Dad. I didn't realize it at the time, but now I know it really effected my relationships with men. I was so afraid of losing this man I had fallen for, that I broke up with him over the phone!

A year later, I realized I had made a mistake and tried to get him back, but he already had another girlfriend. He is one man who will always have a special place in my heart. I still think about him sometimes, and if I had not been so frightened of losing him, we could have had something wonderful. The sex was like something out of a romance book and there were fireworks left and right!!

I couldn't believe this, but I went to see him a year later. His new girlfriend was there, and he told her to leave. She got really mad, but she left, and then he took me by the hand and led me into his room and we made love! I couldn't believe it. Then he said, "Just like the good old times, huh?" I was dumbfounded. He still had kept a pair of my earrings that I left at his house a year before and gave them back to me.

Anway, I tried one more time to get him back, and realized it was a lost cause. I had ended up really hurting him, and he simply didn't want to take any more chances with me, I guess. He did want to make love again though!

Well, this is one of my more sexy stories from years back. But back to the point, try to put a damper on your fears and stay confident. Just don't try to get too serious too soon because because I think that scares a lot of men off.

Good luck! Hope you liked my story. :D

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