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Sounds like this guy was trying to get a little "nooky" and didn't so he stopped calling. If he was interested in something long term with you, he would be calling and setting up future dates. Like the other posters said, just forget the jerk and move on. Don't initiate any more contact with him and save your dignity.
[QUOTE=Tru521]I never said that I didn't want to have sex with him, and he never asked me to. Why are guys so strange? Its like one night they like you enough to spend the entire evening with you, then the next day it's like your not even friends. Am I the naive one in this? :rolleyes:[/QUOTE]

I don't think most guys really want women as friends. I think the only female "friend" a guy really has is his wife when he finally meets the one he really loves. But no, it really sounds like this guy wasn't that into you. He took you out for a spin, and somewhere along the line, for whatever reason, thought "nah." Be grateful he let you know, even if indirectly, that he's just not that interested in you before you got too involved. A lot of men would let you think they really cared, slept with you, and taken whatever they could off you before cooling off and doing the disappearing act. Like the book says, men are cowards. They'd rather do almost anything than just tell you the truth and say to your face that they're not interested.
[QUOTE=Hiya]I don't think most guys really want women as friends. I think the only female "friend" a guy really has is his wife when he finally meets the one he really loves. But no, it really sounds like this guy wasn't that into you. He took you out for a spin, and somewhere along the line, for whatever reason, thought "nah." Be grateful he let you know, even if indirectly, that he's just not that interested in you before you got too involved. A lot of men would let you think they really cared, slept with you, and taken whatever they could off you before cooling off and doing the disappearing act. Like the book says, men are cowards. They'd rather do almost anything than just tell you the truth and say to your face that they're not interested.[/QUOTE]

I agree totally. MOST men would rather cut off an arm then tell you they aren't interested. Their actions, however, say what their voice won't.





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