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Hi Jack, the nice gestures she does do confuse things a little because they do not match what you described at first, but truly my feelings are still the same....you had mentioned she did not become this selfish until the move situation, but in the first description it sounded like many of these things had been going on for a while.

Regardless of the few nice unslefish gestures she may make, she is still showing many qualities of being self absorbed. If she is reacting to the move she is certainly not doing very well at communicating - making you doubt yourself and not feel appreciated does not solve the problem. She is not supporting you and I am worried that it will only get worse over time, even when you are in the same town again.

She may be having some sort of insecurity over the move but she needs to be more mature and communicate her actual feelings and not take it out on you. If she won't talk about it and handles it by telling you that you are a bad boyfriend and need to do more for her how will you handle another large life event? Things to think about, but I would be very cautious and would not propose at this point.





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