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I recently went through a pretty ugly breakup .. recently being a year (hell it still feels recent to me) anyway .. I stopped talking to all 3 of my friends .. I only had the 3 but durring and after the breakup I just felt like staying home .. so I did .. until one day I realized that I was sitting in this very clean apartment .. stylishly decorated and the likelyhood that I would have someone over for coffee was 0!!! ...

So what did I do you ask .. well keep in mind that I only gave this great experient a try this weekend but I called up a girlfriend I had in High School and we went out for Coffee .. nothing big but a nice re-connection .. and I felt human for the first time in a long time ...

Not that I felt atractive to the opposite sex .. because I dont feel that yet .. but I felt like I could have a conversation .... small steps ...

I am not saying that you should run out and go try and find your love .. but maybe try and connect with someone to be friends with .. friends introduce you to their other friends .. this is my cunning plan to meet a guy! I have no other hope .. too much of a wall flower I am affraid!

Anyway .. the group thing sounds like a good plan .. even if its not a therapy group .. how about a class where you have to have a partner or something .. a cooking class .. hell and art class at a local college ... get out of the house that is the most importiant thing!





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