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Hi,
I wrote a thread on here not to long ago about the whole martial problem...But now it's has been getting worse...We are heading down a downward spiral ...It feels like it's almost over like a ride that just began now it's come to a hault...
My family is so unhappy...My husband has a very good job makes excellent money but because of expensive things like hobbies and other things we are in debt big time...To the point of struggling to pay our house and car payment...This is killing me, never did we have this problem in all the years we were married which has been 10 years...Why did i not make him stop???I don't know....The financail situation has put a strain on our relationship and if he can't buy something he puts a guilt trip on me(even though he says he's not)...O well, deal with, im so tired of this...My kids have always had everything they have ever wanted so now having to tell them no we don't have the money they think we are joking...But my husband will give to them the money even if we don't have it...
We really have come to the point where we fight about everything anymore...I'm so stress out over this and he refuses to talk about it...I just can't talk to him, he makes me so angry over this whole situation...Where did my partner go???He mentally left me all i have is a paycheck and a bunch of bills...He use to do all the bills for the last eight years of our marriage until i figure there was somethings that weren't getting paid so now i took over to try my hardest to clean up this mess...I just can't do it...I'm so afraid of loosing the house we worked so hard to get...He's in lala land while i'm in reality this could be a possiblity...I just can't keep up with all these bills...
I know that no one likes to talk about their financial problems but hey i had to get this off my chest...Couldn't talk to family members they think that we have money coming out of rear ends....People like that just don't understand...Or they look at you like your a charity case...
Now here's another one for you, he had a problem on the computer a couple of years ago with looking at porn, which wasn't a problem for me...What was a problem for me is that he made a profile for a get together sex site...This was a couple of years ago, when i threaten to rip the computer out of the wall and throw it out, he well far as i know hasn't gone that site again...Now every now and then i will just check to see what he's been looking at, well what do you know he's been up to something...He uses the computer and wipes it clean...You can't look up the history of what he was on, Sneaky....Makes me wonder...Where did my happy marriage go???





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