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I know the other responders meant well, but I really think you're completely missing the point to be focusing on her not moving in as the main problem in your relationship. What about the fact that she expects you to wait on her hand and foot, sends pictures of herself to guys she flirts with online, throws big fits and then pouts and demands you apologize, treats you like a cab driver, and physically attacks you, then lies to the police and your family, saying you assaulted her and throwing you in jail??? This girl is extremely disturbed and unstable--what happened to your resolution to move on because otherwise you and your family would no longer be able to respect you for taking back someone who treated you so terribly?
[QUOTE=Snails]I know the other responders meant well, but I really think you're completely missing the point to be focusing on her not moving in as the main problem in your relationship. What about the fact that she expects you to wait on her hand and foot, sends pictures of herself to guys she flirts with online, throws big fits and then pouts and demands you apologize, treats you like a cab driver, and physically attacks you, then lies to the police and your family, saying you assaulted her and throwing you in jail??? This girl is extremely disturbed and unstable--what happened to your resolution to move on because otherwise you and your family would no longer be able to respect you for taking back someone who treated you so terribly?
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Ok, I must have missed that part somewhere. If all of this is true, you would be making a HUGE mistake moving in or marrying this girl. Love is not enough and cannot compensate for the person's MAJOR character flaws.
I too agree. I think pressuring her to move in with you when she just doesnt want to is only going to make matters worse between the two of you.

Why dont you talk to her and just let her know, look i know your scared to move in with me so instead of giving you crap from time to time about "when will you move in with me" Im just going to let you decide. I'll let you come to me when you think you are ready. This will save you guys some arguments and fighting over something that is getting you no where.

You love her right? So why pressure her? Let things happen on there own. I wont move in with my guy (mostly out of respect of my parents), but Im not moving in with him until 1. I am totally ready, and 2. a few other things are taken care of. He understands why I dont want to move in with him yet. And he doesnt mind waiting either.

I think you two need to be adults about this and just have a discussion not a fight. And maybe take my advice dont pressure her, let her tell you when she's ready.

Also you mentioned you have no friends? You sit around and wait for her to get into contact with you? Most couples should have friends, mutual their own whatever. How did it come down to you not having any friends to hang out with when she's busy, working, or doing other things. I dont feel you should be totally 100% dependant on her when she's not rushing to spend every waking moment w/you. You should have friends? Why not?





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