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My boyfriend and I have been together for almost six months and we'll be married next year.
The past month I've been coping with some incredible idea that our relationship is going downhill but I know it's not. He is sooooooooo good to me, better than he has been with anyone and I KNOW he loves me. He shows me all the time. He's so romantic and I've accused him of losing his romance. His response was "you're just getting accustomed to it." After thinking about it I told him he was right.
"It's probably a bit of both and it's sad that that has to happen," he told me.

The thing is we've both held out to find "the one", our soul mate and well, we found each other. We have a WONDERFUL relationship.
I don't know where my insecurities are coming from but lately I've been having nightmares of us breaking up, I've been looking far too deep into things and seeing problems that just aren't there. He supports me and he does everything he can to make sure I'm happy. I see this everyday. I can't do better than him and I don't want to.

So why can't I let these worries go? He asks me where my doubts come from and honestly, I don't know. PMS? I have no doubt we'll always be in love and it will be wonderful for the rest of our lives because we've both known exactly what we've wanted for years and held out to get it. I know he's the one, there's no question, so why am I putting him through this? I hate making him feel like he's doing something wrong, and he hates seeing me so unhappy. But I love him, I know he loves me and I AM happy with him.

What do I do? We've talked and talked and talked it through and I'm still confused. This relationship will never end, I just want to know how I can keep myself from feeling this angst.

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