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This is a long story so I apologize in advance. I dated this guy for a few months a while back but then we ended up having to break up because he decided to move out of state to pursue his career. In the short time that we dated I guess I fell in love with him and knew that I wanted more. I probably should have cut off contact with him then, but he wanted to remain friends so I remained in contact with him hoping something deeper would come of it. Soon after he moved he started dating another girl but he insisted it wasn't anything serious. Anytime he came back to NY we would end up hanging out and hooking up. A couple of weeks ago I made plans to go out and see him and everything was fine until the other girl found out I was coming and she flipped out, apparently thinking that the relationship was more than what he claimed it was. So four days before I was to leave he had a talk with her and told her he would commit to her and he swore that nothing would happen with me. I was upset when he told me this because I felt as though he lied to me about how serious it was with this girl and also felt used. I also realized that I no longer had a chance with him. After a few days of pondering the situation I decided to go anyway just because I spent the money so I thought I'd make the best of it. Well, I went and we ended up hooking up and now I feel like crap. I know that I was being used all this time but I was blinded by my feelings for him. He called me yesterday and tried to engage me in phone sex and I told him off, telling him that he can't have both of us and maybe he shouldn't be in a committed relationship. Anyway, I know the best thing I can do is to cut him off and I am trying really hard to do that right now, so I'm not really seeking advice. I just feel so down on myself about the whole thing. I feel used and I feel like a tramp. I also feel awful for the other girl. Anyway, sorry so long. I guess I'm just venting.





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