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[QUOTE=confused788]its so hard to not think that its not my fault. i constantly hear it every night and i feel like its my fault everyone thinks hes a mean person. its like non of my friends want to talk to him (theyd rather strangle his butt). i feel like i should of kept my mouth close.

i talked to him last night again. i called him around 10:30 and so on. and he finally called me at like 12 something. he was mad. i asked "whats wrong?" and he was like "so where the f**** were you? you called me so late. where did you go?" and i said "well i thought ud be out wiht your friends so i called at 10" and he went "you dont know crap". and then we started fighting. and then hes starts calling me a ho. because suposedly the way i dress is bad (so like a skirt..or a tube top..etc). and hes calling me a ho for like 10 minutes and a b*****. and then hes starts saying thigns like "your sister is hot...blah blah blah" (he knows it ets me sad). and like he hangs up and iu call him backc rying..and this goes on for like an hour untill ii said "fine..jsut go to sleep you need your rest".

i really don't get his actions. he acts like he still cares and says things were its like he wants to work things out. but then he gets all psycho on my butt and i don't know what to do. its like i can't do anything right. i like hate myself...


its like i caleld to late last night. i wore a tube top. i should of been nicer to him when i was making pancakes. =| i ahte myself. its like i can't do anything right. its like im in a bubble. and verynight i cry. whats wrong with me seriously? am i such a horrible person? i always thought id be a ncie girlfriend...but i guess i was wrong.

i started thinking of everything i did wrong last night in out relationship...and i felt like its me. =( oh well.

sorry guys. :([/QUOTE]


Yeah I don't know what to say...anymore..I know your not asking me to say anything but I see the old me in you so much it's hard not to say anything. Instead of reading what everyone is saying and letting it go from one ear out the other- why don't you try actually REALLY listening...take some of this stuff into consideration...

just fyi. the name calling and mean things he says to you cause he knows it hurts you is called EMOTIONAL ABUSEMENT. and it does NOT get any better. the name calling will get worse and lead to more the just emotional abusement...I just want to shake some sense into you. I guess I know how my family felt about me...

You only feel bad because he turns everything around on you and makes you look like the bad guy-it's called MANIPULATION and your falling right into it. He is a controll freak, don't you get it? -that gets worse too and he's already bad.

And the next time he asks where you were cause you called late you can tell him it's none of his f'ing business because REMEMBER YOU TWO AREN'T A COUPLE ANYMORE. REMEMBER HIM TELLING YOU, "..THAT'S WHY WERE NOT TOGETHER ANYMORE"....when are you going to learn to walk away from this "relationship"...I guess you are going to be like me and learn the hard way...

Stop feeling like it's your fault. You have tons of people telling you it's not your fault and one LOSER telling you it is. Okay think about it- you have a ton of people on your side that are good people who are telling you it's not your fault, then you have one guy who is only trying to hurt you with emotional abusement and make you feel like everything is your fault. Okay you decide to believe this jerk why?..I just don't get it....

Good luck sweetie.





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