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Wow! I am so sorry for you! What a sad story, but absolutely beautifully worded, I might add. You should consider a career in writing if you have not already done so.

Green brought up a very valid point. Maybe you have sabotaged your relationships because you feel guilty for being so happy. You should NOT feel guilty about being happy or for desiring such DO deserve to be happy! And you should be so proud of yourself for all that you have overcome.

It sounds like you need to focus on yourself for a while; learn more about you. Find out what you need and what you want. You need to figure out how to make you happy (without depending on someone else, ie your girlfriend) before you can make anyone else happy. No one hates you, and you should not hate yourself. You need to forgive yourself and move on.

Some things just don't work out; you need to let go of the past and focus on the present. You can be a great dad and still have a relationship with a woman other than the mother of your children. Maybe that is why your g/f wanted to move away; she needed more attention focused on her rather than the drama you left behind. Yet, you need to be with someone who is understanding of your commitment to your kids. You have to find a balance. Let go of past drama and guilt; indulge in the happiness you want and deserve!

And as for the g/f, if it is meant to be, she'll be back. Maybe she just needs some time to work on figure out what it is that she wants. It sounds as though you two had anamazing connection, and that is hard to find. I think she will realize this. But if she does not, you have to let all that go and focus on you and what unfathomable romantic possibilities could be waiting for you in the future.

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