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I can't tell you the name of that website, but it has three different sections called, "dating", "romance" and "intimate". If you do a search for dating sites, you should be able to find it.

A lot of guys have profiles on all three sections. But most of the action occurs in the intimate section. The site is free for women and has a really good chat feature. You can also post backstage pics which can be nude. Of course, I wouldn't do something like that, but, you would be surprised how many beautiful women are on there just looking for a fling. Married ones! And lots of married men too, of course.

I just mostly go there to chat sometimes in the evenings when I'm bored, but I was very surprised to find out that some of these men are actually looking for relationships. They just want to get intimate sooner! This one guy I've been chatting with and who wants to meet (another Mike, by the way :D ) says he doesn't like all the game playing that goes on in bars and prefers to begin the sexual part of a relationship right away. He was very honest with me and upfront and said he wasn't really looking for a girlfriend, but would like to see someone on a regular basis, more as a friend with benefits.

This site is definitely not for the meek at heart. And you might get offended by some of the things these men say on the intimate section. I just don't answer if they offend me in any way.

Last night I was chatting iwth a gorgeous man from New York. Italian! He lived in Buffalo. He wanted to call me, but I said no, so he quit messaging me. So, you see, most of them are looking for a fling. But I still think that sometimes what starts out as a fling or sexual relationship can turn into something more. It's not the ideal situation by far, but it's not unheard of.

Anway, my lunch date with Mike #3 went very well. He is a CPA for a Fortune 500 company! Attractive to boot too. He already emailed me and asked for my phone number. So, I'm pretty excited.

The one that I just told you about that I met in the intimate section (Mike #4), we are meeting next week after I get off work for a drink. I'm just going to meet him and take it from there. I usually never sleep with anyone right away, but neither do I wait months and months if I'm attracted and feel chemistry.

I think it just depends on your own personal moral values and what feels right for you.

I hope you realize I'm definitely not condoning sleeping around with a lot of different men. It's just too dangerous. But, while I think that some women feel better waiting to engage in intimate relations, other women are fine with not waiting.

By the way, Stacy, how are doing with the dating thing? Have you met anyone you really like yet?
I don't know if I would call or not Stacy. I don't think I would. I have found that when I follow up after a first date when the guy doesn't call, it usually turns out he wasn't really interested. It sounds like this guy is confident and not shy, so I don't see why he wouldn't follow up if he was really into you. If you call, it may put him on the spot.

It's your choice, of course, but if you want to avoid your ego getting a bruising, I wouldn't call! Especially in this situation. Now, sometimes, I am flexible about calling men, but I don't think I would here.

Mike #3 never did call since our Friday lunch. Maybe he was busy this weekend. I have found that the more I date, the less it bothers me if a certain guy doesn't call. I know there are plenty of men who do want to be with me, so I don't take it personally anymore. I'm really glad I got over that! When I first started dating, I took it really personally and felt very rejected. Now, it doesn't even bother me and I hardly think twice about it. NEXT!

I think you should see the pilot again, Sophia. You did the right thing by not seeing him Sunday when he called at the last minute! Now, he probably has a lot more respect for you. Make sure he calls by Wednesday to set up a date for the weekend!

I think the best way to attract men and make them fall in love with you is just to relax and enjoy the moment. Don't be thinking things like "is he the one" and "do we have a future" early on in the relationship. Instead of thinking "does he like me", think "do I like him?" When you go out on a date, act like it is something you do all the time, and that your date is one of many suitors! (Don't tell him that, of course, just act like it). Actually, it would be a good idea to act like you yourself are just going out for a good time, not to get serious. Whenever I do this, more men call me back. You can still be yourself by doing this.

Anway, I have a meeting with Mike #4 this Wednesday night after work. He is from the intimate section! I'm just going to talk to him and see if we have chemistry. It's really funny because he says he wants a friend to hold and kiss, but he's not really looking for a girlfriend. :confused: It intrigues me and I want to find out what is going on in his head!

Then, this other sexy dude named Neal called me last night (I've been talking to him for quite awhile on the intimate section). I missed his call, so I think I will email him. We are supposed to go out Saturday night. He's really funny and smart.

I think what I'm going to do with these guys I meet on the intimate section is just meet them, see if there is any chemistry, and take it from there. I certainly don't have high hopes for any of them, but as long as I don't expect anything, I won't be let down! Both of these men have been completely and totally honest with me so far.

Well, good luck everyone and keep us all posted. ;)

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