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[QUOTE=Green1]How could u confront your gf/bf who is emotionally unavailable, without sounding insecure or to needy?

Just this summer I didn't see my girlfriend for almost three months. The only time we got in contact with each other is when I called her, and even then we didn't talk long or she was at work or to busy. I was really hurt by this. Before the summer we were so happy together in school and she told me how she wants to marry me and how she loves me and I the same to her. I just feel like she could have tried harder to see me or call me. I don't want to go through this again and I want her to know my needs in the relationship, plus that situation really questioned my trust with her. What do u guys or gals think? :wave:[/QUOTE]

Well, this is just my meager little 2 cents, but I learned the hard way that when someone is emotionally unavailable, 99 times out of 100 it's because they've decided they really don't want to be with you for the long haul. I was faced with this situation and I chose to stay, talk about it, try to improve, talk about my needs, his needs, compromise, blah blah blah, but in the end, it all added up to him just not loving me. If I ever again find myself in a relationship with a man who has become emotionally unavailable, I plan to to the smart, self-protecting, self -respecting thing and put on my walking shoes and just keep walking.

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