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I knew a few people who knew the other woman. I actually know who she is, but don't know her personally. My husband told me that he broke things off with her because he "SAYS" he told her that he wanted his family back and what he was doing was wrong. He told me that she was upset when he told her he did not want to be with her and was crying.


I had heard from other sources that she was saying he was acting different towards her and that she did tell people that he broke it off with her. The woman who told my friend said that she did not care that he broke things off and that is was all his bad anyway.

All along while we were separated he tried to be there for me, obviously out of pure guilt.

He has changed his cell phone number and I check all of his information. I know there are ways to get around all that, but for the most part he checks
out.

The counselor really grills him to when we are in there and he talks openley to me about it. We set a day a week for any questions I have etc. We are reading a recovery book also. He knows that I will find out if he does talk to her and I have made it clear that I no longer have this needy feeling that I have choices in my life and it is a choice that I am making to give our marriage another chance.

He told me that he never loved the woman. It started off as friends and he started telling her about our problems. Our counselor describes our situation and a one night stand type of affair. Don't know why,

All we could do is try. I can't control what is going to happen in the future. I thought long and hard about giving him another chance, and I don't want to throw everything we build together without giving it another chance. I know who I am now and I know that I am not a poor pathetic woman that needs a man to be someone. I gave him another chance because I wanted to and it is not easy to walk a way from a marriage/2 kids, a home etc., and I know what he did is awful, but he is still a good person and because of a horrible decision he made, does not erase all the good times and good person that he is. (my counselors adivce, which i realize now to) All couples go thru tough times and if we can get past this then great! If we can't then life goes on and we will go our separate ways. I feel like the worst has happened and I have been through hell and back and now I am back with a better outlook on life, love, family...and most of all Myself.

I can't worry about what he is going to do and what he is doing. So I guess we will just have to wait and see :)

We have been back together now for now 6 months. Hopefully, all goes and continues to go well.





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