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Men or Women for that matter becoming a bit "protective" "obsessed" or "controlling" after they become engaged or married?

My boyfriend and i are recently engaged, he has never been a 'crazy' b/f by any means but he has voiced his concern about not liking me around certain guys lately (one that was in town for a wedding because he didnt like how he looked at me) I went to the bars a few nights ago with some friends that were in town and he wasnt able to come, he got off work early and called me and i told him some older guy was trying to buy me a shot and i told the guy no im engaged ect... my mom tells me i shouldnt tell him things like that because all it does is upsets him (husbands boyfriends ect in general) i tell her i tell him everything...

well he got upset and said "stop telling me your going to make me mad" like he might have to drive to where we are to straighten this guy up i guess you could say. :rolleyes: I know he's always been a "tough" guy so that is nothing new. So later that night I went to his house to stay the night. He goes "so did you talk bad about me tonight to everyone?!" I go "are you kidding me :eek: " he says "im just joking relax" :confused:

So that kinda ticked me off. So basically is this typical behavior or a fear thing? :confused:

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[QUOTE=Piranna65] Im sure it does....

Men or Women for that matter becoming a bit "protective" "obsessed" or "controlling" after they become engaged or married?

My boyfriend and i are recently engaged, he has never been a 'crazy' b/f by any means but he has voiced his concern about not liking me around certain guys lately (one that was in town for a wedding because he didnt like how he looked at me) I went to the bars a few nights ago with some friends that were in town and he wasnt able to come, he got off work early and called me and i told him some older guy was trying to buy me a shot and i told the guy no im engaged ect... my mom tells me i shouldnt tell him things like that because all it does is upsets him (husbands boyfriends ect in general) i tell her i tell him everything...[/QUOTE]There really isn't anything wrong with excepting a drink from another man when in a relationship. It's a drink, NOT sex. If a relationship has trust this shouldn't be a problem.

[QUOTE=Piranna65]well he got upset and said "stop telling me your going to make me mad" like he might have to drive to where we are to straighten this guy up i guess you could say. :rolleyes: I know he's always been a "tough" guy so that is nothing new. So later that night I went to his house to stay the night. He goes "so did you talk bad about me tonight to everyone?!" I go "are you kidding me :eek: " he says "im just joking relax" :confused:

So that kinda ticked me off. So basically is this typical behavior or a fear thing? :confused:[/QUOTE]Your man seems to have some self-esteem problems and trust issues.

I'm in a common law relationship. We have been living together for three years. My man hates going to clubs and bars, but he has NO problem with me going. He will even give me money and drop me off where ever I'm going. I went out a couple of weekends ago with a friend to celebrate her birthday. I had guys coming up to me buying me drinks and trying to get me to make out with them. I was totally up front with them, let them know I have a man whom I live with and I have no interest in having anything to do with any other man. Most of them still bought me drinks and had no problems with this. When my friends and I were ready to call it a night one of the guys offered me his cell phone to call my hubby to come pick me up. He even waited with me and my friends until my he showed up. When he and I got home I told him about my night, I also tell my man everything. He had no problem with it, he actually felt great about it (knowing other men find me attractive, but I'm with him and only him) because he knows I love him and that I'm a very loyal person. All I did the whole night was dance, have some drinks with my friends and talk to the guys about how great my man is to me. It's ALL about trust and if a guy or girl has a problem with their partner going out and having some fun with friends they are just going to cause major problems in their relationship later on. Best to get something like this fixed up now then have to deal with it later on.





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