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Maybe picking her up isnt the smartest idea. Im thinking she'd call you once she gets home. Why not let her find her own way home then speak to her later? If she isnt sounding to keen on the idea maybe you shouldnt?

I would have gone if I was her too, I would have been hesitant about leaving my boyfriend behind though. I actually would have done anything possible to get him to come. Just because she's been everywhere with her family is no excuse really. You gotta take advantage of that stuff when you can.

I wouldnt tell her what plans you had. You can always plan a different cruise somewhere else if things change. But do not completely excuse her cheating behaviour. I'd let her know it upsets you of course but dont let her think its "okay" otherwise she may get back with you and this could become a bad habit!

Good luck today since I know she's coming home, keep us posted!
[QUOTE=Piranna65]Maybe picking her up isnt the smartest idea. Im thinking she'd call you once she gets home. Why not let her find her own way home then speak to her later? If she isnt sounding to keen on the idea maybe you shouldnt?

I would have gone if I was her too, I would have been hesitant about leaving my boyfriend behind though. I actually would have done anything possible to get him to come. Just because she's been everywhere with her family is no excuse really. You gotta take advantage of that stuff when you can.

I wouldnt tell her what plans you had. You can always plan a different cruise somewhere else if things change. But do not completely excuse her cheating behaviour. I'd let her know it upsets you of course but dont let her think its "okay" otherwise she may get back with you and this could become a bad habit!

Good luck today since I know she's coming home, keep us posted![/QUOTE]

of course i don't excuse it, but when it comes between a kiss and our relationship, i have to make a choice. I don't want her to do it again, but i think she just feels enclosed, unable to escape from reality, unable to take control of ones life. maybe as if she fears getting tied down, i am pretty sure everyone has this fear once in their lives, however not everyone handles it the same way, not everyone can be as strong, not everyone can be as brave, some buckle down and accept and others squirm free, we shall see





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