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well here it goes,, i have a female friend that is my best friend of the opposite sex,, and has been for 13 years or so ,since like when we were in middle school, she has dated other people as so have i... we are very close and talk about everything we are very close -- and have always been there for each other,,, we talk quite alot ,, and we are very open to each other,,, i ended a long term {5} year relationship about a year ago and she has just ended a {4} year relationship about 2 months ago was actually ingaged and suppost to be married a month ago,,, he ex was really not a good guy and treated her really poorly,, and was much of a family guy ,,, but it was her decision to be with home so i accepted it but was also honest to her about how i felt about him........

when we bolth started the relationship with the people we were with we never told each other about our significant other untill about 6 months into our relationships,,,,,,,we can tyalk on the phone for hours on end and not run out of things to talk about,,, we still talked alot while we were with other people ,, with either of our significant other really like much,, { which i can understand} her mom has alway told the bolth of us that we should stop wasting our time and get togethor,,as so a good friend of her's feels the same way,,, we have kissed in the past and recently,, there is definatelly somethign there,, but i dont know what,,,,, i have a ton of freinds that are girls and what not,, and i talk about them hitting on me and wanting to hang out and she will be like tell them i am your girlfriend,,,, or i was talking to this girl at a bar last week and my friend was talking to her on the phone and telling her and she told him to not let me hook up w/ her and she was getting jelious,,,,, or a dream she had before she got married she said me and her went to a bar and i asked her if she was trully happy with this guy and she said i dont know ,, so i said lets kiss and find out so we hooked up in her dream,, i got a 7am phone call for that,,,, last week she was hanging on me holding my hand, hugging me etc.etc. and we kissed for a bit she made the move....

i could go on and on but i think ive gotten to the more obvious points,, she has had a very rough year losing a sibling,, parents divorcing and now this,,, i know i need to be there for her,,, and i know she needs her time to heal from multiple things,,, and i know nothing can happen for a deal of time,,, im 1 to be shy and have blown many oppertunities because i never made a move,,, but i need to decide whether or not to talk to her about this ,,we bolth obviously flirt with each other and get somewhat jelious of things ,,,,, the thing is we get along soooo great and make each other happy ,, but obviously relationships bring upon other feelings and can change things a bit,,, at 3 years shy of 30 i dont need a best gal friend that i talk to 4-5 times a weeks ,, i need a girlfriend that is my best friend ,,,,, just dont want to take the chance of ruining a frendship,, which honestly prob wouldnt happen because we are that close ,, but would make things weird,, i havent dated anyone since she broke up with her fiance,,, any advice or suggestions would be helpfull thanks!!





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