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[QUOTE=glamourgal]I am going to a wedding this weekend and another wedding that was rescheduled for the next weekend (this is the one that there are two different guys that the bride and groom want me to meet). I guess it is something to do, but I am really not looking forward to going. I am so tired of always being dateless at weddings while everyone else is coupled off. As far as the other guy, I am just going to play it by ear--so far neither he nor I have been able to get our schedules together for us to meet.[/QUOTE]
GG, i hope to don't get mad or anything when i say this, but, i really don't get it.. :confused: :confused: i know its tough to find someone and we've been through all the reasons why before, but...you seem to reject EVERY SINGLE PERSON your friends/family want to hook you up with. WHY?? if you're so tired of being single why not just go out with these guys "just for the heck of it"?? have you met any of these guys??

sitting around and being soooo picky with these guys isn't going to help your situation. i know you know you're hot and that you think because of this you deserve a lot even though you don't want to admit it. to me, as long as these guys are well groomed, hygeinic, NOT psycho, or too terribly unattractive, then i think you should give it a go.

once upon a time, i actually fell for someone that really really wasn't my type physically. she was pretty but really not my type but over the course of a year or so, i got to know her and i started to like her and i think she felt the same for me too...so, you never know.

PPLLLLEEEAAAASSSEEEEEEEE, GG, i really want to see you like this -> :bouncing: (in a lovely shade of pink, ;) not green)..so, if anything, just go and meet these guys and smile and laugh and engage them, don't let them do all the talking. as a guy, when i get this from girls, i take it they're not interested and i move on.

and one more thing to work on your smile: i just got my braces off so i'm smiling at tons of girls these days. some smiles can be fake but to make a smile look genuine, try thinking about something really funny that happened to you. when you start smiling from the thought, IMMEDIATELY MAKE EYE CONTACT with the guy(s). it will make your smile look so much more inviting and you'll seem really approachable and fun to talk to.

everytime i come on here and see your name i always think that some lucky punk will end up with you someday but sometimes even the hot chick has to put some effort...you being single doesn't make any sense....just like sophia...and also my yoga teacher!! i almost have a crush on her but she's like 40 and single and attractive. i don't get it... :confused: :confused:
[QUOTE=degen95]GG, i hope to don't get mad or anything when i say this, but, i really don't get it.. :confused: :confused: i know its tough to find someone and we've been through all the reasons why before, but...you seem to reject EVERY SINGLE PERSON your friends/family want to hook you up with. WHY?? if you're so tired of being single why not just go out with these guys "just for the heck of it"?? have you met any of these guys??

sitting around and being soooo picky with these guys isn't going to help your situation. i know you know you're hot and that you think because of this you deserve a lot even though you don't want to admit it. to me, as long as these guys are well groomed, hygeinic, NOT psycho, or too terribly unattractive, then i think you should give it a go.

once upon a time, i actually fell for someone that really really wasn't my type physically. she was pretty but really not my type but over the course of a year or so, i got to know her and i started to like her and i think she felt the same for me too...so, you never know.

PPLLLLEEEAAAASSSEEEEEEEE, GG, i really want to see you like this -> :bouncing: (in a lovely shade of pink, ;) not green)..so, if anything, just go and meet these guys and smile and laugh and engage them, don't let them do all the talking. as a guy, when i get this from girls, i take it they're not interested and i move on.

and one more thing to work on your smile: i just got my braces off so i'm smiling at tons of girls these days. some smiles can be fake but to make a smile look genuine, try thinking about something really funny that happened to you. when you start smiling from the thought, IMMEDIATELY MAKE EYE CONTACT with the guy(s). it will make your smile look so much more inviting and you'll seem really approachable and fun to talk to.

everytime i come on here and see your name i always think that some lucky punk will end up with you someday but sometimes even the hot chick has to put some effort...you being single doesn't make any sense....just like sophia...and also my yoga teacher!! i almost have a crush on her but she's like 40 and single and attractive. i don't get it... :confused: :confused:[/QUOTE]
Hey Degen :) ,
No you did not make me mad :D , in fact you made me laugh when I read your post because my family and friends are always telling me that I am too picky. Maybe I am, but hardly anyone (except my best friend) ever believes me when I say that I am not looking for good looks OR money--or anything like that. I just want a clean-cut, somewhat intelligent guy who values and believes in the same things I do. That is really ALL that I want--honest. There is a guy in one of my classes who I hoped would maybe ask me out--he is a little chubby, but he has a neat appearance and a really great personality---then I found out he is married.

I really don't think that I am being unrealistic in what I want. Also, I am glad that my family and friends are thinking of me and trying to introduce me to single guys whom they know. There really are not very many alternatives to meeting people, so I am very thankful for them thinking of me. I don't mind meeting those two guys at all next weekend, but I AM tired of always being dateless when I go to weddings. It makes me feel like such a loser when everyone else is coupled off having a great time---plus they have someone to dance with. Anyway, I don't want to whine any further :D . Thanks so much Degen for the advice, and for hoping good things for me! I bet you have a really wonderful smile that one lucky girl is going to enjoy waking up to one day!!! I wish you all of the best and I hope you meet her very soon ;) !

(I just wanted to add that I really don't think I am all of that great, so I do NOT think that I deserve a lot for being "hot". I just want in a guy what I described above, and I will not settle for less because then we would both end up unhappy.)





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